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Dec 3 2021:181: What exactly is polarity? We break it down. (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]
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Nov 26 2021:180: Top 3 things we’ve learned after coaching men on sex & relationships for years (ft. Jason Lange)
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Nov 19 2021:179: Why’s it so hard for me to approach my wife/partner for sex? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Nov 12 2021:178: What's it like to have non-ejaculatory orgasms as a man? (ft. Cam Fraser)
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Nov 5 2021:177: What's it like being a "wing girl" to thousands of men? (ft. Marni Kinrys, of the Wing Girl Method)
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Oct 29 2021:176: Men, weed, alcohol, and love. (ft. Jason Lange)
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Oct 22 2021:175: Repair conversations, MDMA, and love (ft. Jayson Gaddis)
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Oct 15 2021:174: How knowing your "hottest sexual movie" can make for smokin' sex (ft. Celeste Hirschman)
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Oct 8 2021:173: Conscious Cock. What is it and how can it help you? (ft. Kristopher Lovestone)
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Oct 1 2021:172: Revealing my sex research, one stat at a time (ft. Robbie Kramer)
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Sep 24 2021:171: Adventures in cross-cultural dating (ft. Robbie Kramer)
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Sep 17 2021:170: How do you overcome sexual shame? (ft. Becky Carter)
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Sep 10 2021:169: Making after-sex cleanup awesome, one couple at a time (ft. Frances Tang)
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Sep 3 2021:168: From Christian pastor to stripper! How she overcame religious trauma (ft. Nikole Mitchell)
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Aug 27 2021:167: How do I meet women to date in real life (instead of on dating apps)? ft. Camille Virginia
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Aug 20 2021:166: Can psychedelics help heal you? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Aug 13 2021:165: From Air Force Captain to personal growth leader (ft. Bryan Reeves)
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Aug 6 2021:164: What exactly *is* tantra? (ft. Devi Ward Erickson)
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Jul 30 2021:163: Ever had red-hot sex with someone who's bad for you? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Jul 23 2021:162: What's the difference between porn sex and real-life sex? A woman porn director explains (ft. Holly Randall)
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Jul 16 2021:161: 3 common ways women try to control men in relationships (ft. Simone Milasas)
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Jul 9 2021:160: She went from not wanting sex at all to deep, fulfilling sex (ft. Irene Fehr)
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Jul 2 2021:159: It happens to boys, too. Somatic therapies to heal from sexual abuse (ft. Rahi Chun)
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Jun 25 2021:158: How "radical authenticity" can transform your dating & relationship life (ft. Connell Barrett)
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Jun 18 2021:157: How to talk dirty during sex -- while making her feel safe (ft. Ashley Manta) [REPLAY]
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Jun 11 2021:156: The new dating app that gets you more dates! (ft. Zach Schleien of Filter Off)
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Jun 4 2021:155: How to overcome anxious/avoidant attachment in relationship (ft. Dr. Matt Kreinheder)
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May 28 2021:154: Can I have female friends when in a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange)
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May 21 2021:153: Her sexual healing: How to support her *and* get your needs met (ft. Violet Lange)
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May 14 2021:152: GirlTalk: How to go down on a woman so she *loves* it
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May 7 2021:151: Curious about consent? Intimacy Coordinators for sex scenes break it down (ft. Jenifer Yeuroukis & Sarah-Jane Hill)
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Apr 30 2021:150: Want a happy, healthy relationship? This could be holding you back. (ft. Ben Goresky & Mark Wolynn)
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Apr 23 2021:149: "My wife doesn't want sex anymore." It could be time for this. (ft. Jason Lange)
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Apr 16 2021:148: Being a male virgin in your 20s, 30s, or beyond (ft. Jason Lange)
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Apr 9 2021:147: Are you afraid of her emotions? Here’s what’s important to know (ft. Jason Lange)
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Apr 1 2021:146: Special GuyTalk/GirlTalk: Ghosting. Let's break it down.
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Mar 26 2021:145: How to "do" attachment well, according to a couples therapist (ft. Ryan Ginn) [REPLAY]
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Mar 21 2021:144: Should you stay together for the kids? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Mar 12 2021:143: GirlTalk: Dating apps: Our experience (as straight women)
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Mar 8 2021:142: Afraid of being called creepy? This could be why (ft. Jason Lange)
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Feb 26 2021:141: GuyTalk: Bullying, resilience, and relationships
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Feb 19 2021:140: The line between her being abusive and her feminine storm (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange)
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Feb 12 2021:139: How to Not Die Alone (ft. Logan Ury & Kristen Berman)
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Feb 5 2021:138: GirlTalk! When should you text her vs. call her? [Replay]
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Jan 30 2021:137: Should you stay friends with her? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Jan 22 2021:136: GuyTalk: Dating after divorce
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Jan 15 2021:135: How being 'disrespectful' could help your sex life (ft. Jason Lange)
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Jan 8 2021:134: Feel let down by your partner a lot? This might be why (ft. Jason Lange)
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Jan 2 2021:133: GirlTalk: Masturbation!
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Dec 25 2020:132: What if she's not doing the work? Can it work? (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange)
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Dec 18 2020:131: Feel like you can never get it right with her? This dynamic could be why (ft. Shana James)
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Dec 11 2020:130: GirlTalk: The best sex we've ever had :)
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Dec 4 2020:129: Setting boundaries with family. 'Tis the season! (ft. Violet Lange)
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Nov 20 2020:128: Feel like you're walking on eggshells? Recognizing Borderline Personality Disorder (ft. Violet Lange)
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Nov 13 2020:127: The secret to inspiring your woman to want more sex with you! (ft. Becky Wells) [replay]
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Nov 6 2020:126: If you don't want sex with tons of women, is there something wrong with you? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Oct 30 2020:125: 2 sex coaches open up about men, love, and growth (ft. Shana James) [replay]
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Oct 23 2020:124: How to have the women YOU want, want you back
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Oct 16 2020:123: The best therapy to help your sex & love life (might not be what you think) (ft. Z Zoccolante)
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Oct 9 2020:122: The 3 different kinds of female orgasm! (ft. Melanie Scott) [replay]
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Oct 2 2020:121: A brilliant & inexpensive alternative to couples therapy! (ft. Mark & Ayesha)
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Sep 25 2020:120: What if you're still a virgin (or sexually inexperienced)? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Sep 18 2020:119: GirlTalk: Blowjobs! What we like and don't like in oral sex on men
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Sep 11 2020:118: GirlTalk: Cheating. We get personal.
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Sep 4 2020:117: What does it look like for *women* to "do the work"? (ft. Violet Lange)
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Aug 29 2020:116: Dating during COVID-19: how does it work? (ft. Violet Lange)
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Aug 21 2020:115: Is it easier for men or women to get into a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Aug 14 2020:114: GirlTalk: The 1 relationship skill to rule them all
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Aug 7 2020:113: The sexiest vacation you can take (ft. Mario Cruz)
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Jul 31 2020:112: How quitting porn supercharged this man's sex life (ft. Jason Lange)
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Jul 24 2020:111: GuyTalk: 3 black men talk sex, dating & relationships (ft. Jules, Graze, and Ahmad)
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Jul 17 2020:110: GirlTalk: 3 black girls talk dating (ft. Ivy, Nina, and Amber)
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Jul 12 2020:109: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [replay]
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Jul 6 2020:108: The key to dating with ease & overcoming anxiety in sex & relationships [replay]
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Jul 1 2020:107: Race, Privilege, and Healthy Masculine Leadership (ft. John Wineland, Preston Smiles, Dr. Siri Sat Nam, and Connor Beaton)
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May 31 2020:106: Getting sex back in a sexless relationship (ft. Ken Blackman) [replay]
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May 24 2020:105: GirlTalk: When men do this, we get wet! (Yes, really) [replay]
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May 16 2020:104: What does it mean to "do the work"? (ft. Jason Lange)
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May 10 2020:103: Reverse polarity can kill your sex life as a couple -- unless you do this (ft. Violet & Jason Lange)
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May 4 2020:102: BONUS GirlTalk - on men being in their power
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Apr 24 2020:101: First-ever listener panel! on owning power as a man (ft. Ben, David & Mark)
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Apr 17 2020:100: Being masculine & having emotions: how to "do" it well (ft. John Schinnerer)
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Apr 12 2020:99: A power couple talks about power in their relationship (ft. Jason & Violet Lange)
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Apr 3 2020:98: How to boost your sex appeal by owning your power (ft. Kevin O'Malley)
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Mar 27 2020:97: Using a matchmaker: what to know (ft. Matchmaker May)
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Mar 21 2020:96: How do you date if you have a mental illness? (ft. Jim of NoLongerLonely.com)
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Mar 6 2020:95: How NLP can dramatically help your sex & love life (ft. Mark Sing)
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Feb 28 2020:94: Real-life sexual healing (ft. Melissa Davison, Certified Sexological Bodyworker)
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Feb 21 2020:93: An unexpected way to improve your dating life quickly (ft.
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Feb 14 2020:92.5: Dr. Robert Glover: 5 essential dating tips for men [REPLAY]
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Feb 7 2020:92: How to do dirty talk! (ft. Ashley Manta)
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Jan 31 2020:91: Need more touch in your life? Try this (ft. Soleiman)
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Jan 24 2020:90: 2 simple hacks to improve presence in sex (ft. Ashley Manta)
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Jan 17 2020:89: Tantric dating: What is it & how can it help you? (ft. Catherine Auman)
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Jan 10 2020:88: The Truth About Marriage (ft. Roger Nygard)
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Jan 3 2020:87: A fun way to help your woman feel super sexy (ft. Vixen DeVille)
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Dec 27 2019:86: How do you to tell someone you have an STD? (ft. Adrial Dale)
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Dec 20 2019:85: GirlTalk: Men & Money -- an honest dialogue
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Dec 13 2019:84: How alcohol affects your relationships with women (ft. Omar Pinto)
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Dec 6 2019:83: What's it like to host a sex party? (ft. Emma Sayle)
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Nov 29 2019:82: If you cultivate this 1 quality, you'll magnetize women (ft. Jason Lange)
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Nov 22 2019:81: Overcoming erectile dysfunction & premature ejaculation (ft. Ruwan Meepagala)
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Nov 15 2019:80: Ethical porn: what is it? Why should you watch it? (ft. Liz Garard of GoodPorn)
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Nov 8 2019:79: GirlTalk: How to "cold approach" well (hitting on women you don't know)
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Nov 1 2019:78: GuyTalk: Going down on women!
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Oct 25 2019:77: A brilliant invention to help your woman feel FREE during sex! (ft. Emily Sauer)
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Oct 18 2019:76.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]
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Oct 11 2019:76: Sex: what do you do when your woman stops wanting to have it?
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Oct 4 2019:75: GirlTalk: How to NOT be creepy as a dude (and help women feel safe)
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Sep 20 2019:74: How to generate sexual attraction skillfully: polarity in practice (ft. Jason Lange)
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Sep 13 2019:73: GirlTalk: Going down on women -- how to make it exquisite
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Aug 30 2019:72: PeopleTalk: When are you 'ready' to be in a relationship?
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Aug 23 2019:71: A real couple reveals what it's like to go to counseling [REPLAY]
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Aug 9 2019:70: GirlTalk: This skill makes us *fall in love* with a man
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Aug 3 2019:69: Why talk therapy doesn't always work for men, and what does (ft. Brooke Bergman)
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Jul 26 2019:68: Overcoming porn addiction: one couple's story (ft. The Couple Cure)
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Jul 19 2019:67: 'GuyTalk' response to the skill that makes us wet (ft. Jason Lange)
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Jul 12 2019:66: GirlTalk: When men do this, we get wet.
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Jul 6 2019:65: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [REPLAY]
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Jun 28 2019:64: How to inspire your woman to want more sex with you! (ft. Becky Wells)
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Jun 22 2019:63: 5 science-backed ways to boost your testosterone (ft. Jason Lange)
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Jun 15 2019:62: What do you do if you're not sure she's "The One"? (ft. Dr. Laura Kasper)
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Jun 7 2019:61: Dr. Robert Glover -- 5 essential dating tips for men
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May 30 2019:60: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]
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May 24 2019:59: Do you want more touch in your life? (ft. Adam Lippin)
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May 17 2019:58: The future of online dating (ft. Eve Peters)
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May 10 2019:57: How to get hot sex back into a sexless relationship (ft. Ken Blackman)
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May 3 2019:56: Helping your woman have more sexual pleasure! (ft. Violet Lange & Keri Nola)
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Apr 26 2019:55: A Sex Journal for Couples (ft. Levina Li & Caleb Spaulding)
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Apr 19 2019:54: Behind the scenes with a couples therapist (ft. Ryan Ginn)
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Apr 12 2019:53: How to get over your freaking ex (ft. Jason Lange)
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Mar 29 2019:52: GuyTalk: Have you ever led a woman on?
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Mar 22 2019:51: GirlTalk: We'd love for men to do this differently
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Mar 15 2019:50: One man's experience of polyamory (ft. Pierce Delahunt)
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Mar 8 2019:49: The key to dating with ease (for men)
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Feb 22 2019:48: Who Should Pay On A Date? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Feb 15 2019:47 - A love poem for you
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Feb 8 2019:46: GuyTalk: Men's sexual fantasies
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Feb 1 2019:45: GirlTalk: Real women share their sexual fantasies!
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Jan 25 2019:44: How a "Nice Guy" Found His Power ... and Got Into the Best Relationship of His Life (ft. Jim Cruzen)
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Jan 11 2019:43: How One Man Found His Purpose (ft. Neil Gordon)
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Jan 4 2019:42: How to Intentionally Attract Your Ideal Partner (ft. Jason Lange)
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Dec 21 2018:41.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]
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Dec 14 2018:41: GirlTalk! When should you text her vs. call her?
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Dec 7 2018:40: Men and purpose: what's the deal? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Nov 30 2018:39: Navigating Personal Space vs. Togetherness in Relationship (ft. Jason Lange)
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Nov 16 2018:38: GuyTalk: Casual sex -- a male perspective
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Nov 9 2018:37: Secrets of a Sex Researcher
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Nov 2 2018:36: GirlTalk: Casual Sex!
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Oct 26 2018:35: Keeping sex hot in a long-term relationship (ft. Violet Lange)
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Oct 21 2018:34: Men Being Awesome: 9 More Stories
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Oct 12 2018:33: 10 Times Men Have Been Allies to Me
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Sep 28 2018:32: What to say if your woman was assaulted
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Sep 21 2018:31: A real couple reveals what it's like to go to counseling
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Sep 14 2018:30: GirlTalk: How to Flirt Like a Boss ;)
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Aug 31 2018:29: What it's actually like to be polyamorous
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Aug 24 2018:28: The Day I Outgrew Pickup (ft. Jason Lange)
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Aug 17 2018:27: Hacking Masculine Presence (ft. Johnny Blackburn)
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Aug 10 2018:26: How Men & Women Communicate Differently (ft. Rob Kandell)
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Aug 3 2018:25: GuyTalk: Dating apps - a male perspective
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Jul 27 2018:24: GirlTalk: Dating Apps -- The Good, The Bad, The Ugly
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Jul 13 2018:23: The 3 types of female orgasms (ft. Melanie Scott)
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Jul 6 2018:22: What's really up with "fear of commitment"? (ft. Dr. Laura Kasper)
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Jun 29 2018:21: GirlTalk: How to Soothe an Upset Woman
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Jun 22 2018:20: How to Attract the Right Women (and Not the Wrong Ones) (ft. Jason Lange)
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Jun 15 2018:19: Sex Talk With a Former Professional Dominatrix
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Jun 8 2018:18: The secret to being masculine isn't what you think (ft. Jeffrey Platts)
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Jun 1 2018:17: How to pursue women correctly (ft. Josh Klaasen)
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May 25 2018:16: The top 5 things we've learned about men (ft. Shana James)
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May 18 2018:15: GirlTalk: We crave this from men, and love when they provide it!
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May 11 2018:14: How to be a Man in Relationship Instead of a Boy (ft. Martin Hannon)
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May 4 2018:13: Advanced Sexual Practices for Men
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Apr 27 2018:12: How to Help a Shut-Down Woman Open Up
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Apr 20 2018:11: What can male strippers teach us about relationships?
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Apr 13 2018:10: Ghosting! We've gotta talk about it. Special GirlTalk/GuyTalk episode
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